Trophy Sex Fetish - is it an addictive fetish?

Sex Trophies

Trophy sex is remembering a good shag by keeping a bit of it for later or for ever.
Trophies are like badges that say "I shagged here" or "A shag to remember".
In a world where reality is increasingly simulated, sex trophies are tokens of sexual action in the the real world.

Engendering respect for military trophies is a part of squaddie Basic Training: the original trophies were the heavily defended standards of the Roman legions, now military Unit Colours or Pennants and re-enacted in paintball by capturing the other team's flag. Trophyism is part of military strategy hence the connection between soldiers and trophy sex.

Anything can be a sex trophy, maybe you're already a trophysex fetishist!

• Toys and clothes:
  reminders or souvenirs that you can wear. Objects you can wear publicly which appear normal but which have a special meaning to you - and him. Or intimate garments that you wear privately to remind you secretly of your fun.
  
  • swapping socks, jocks or cockrings after a bar backroom furtive session
  • wrestling, the winner gets the Speedoes or trunks off the looser
  • muddy boots, a temporary trophy till the next boot shine session
  • night with a soldier and he gives you one of his Unit’s T-shirts as a trophy
  • sportskit shorts off that football player you shagged in his team strip
  • punishment book where your Masters record your CP history
  • slave chain, locked round the neck, ankle, waist or cock till next time
  • chastity belt, locked-on jeans or chastity jock
  • dildo or buttplug - remember where and when and with who it first went in completely?
  • Indian loincloth - in combat in the American Great Plains, it was considered brave to capture the strip of soft, tanned skin or cloth which was worn by men between their legs; it was folded over a belt at the front and back.
• Marks and Cuts:
  every body tells a story and our own tells the story of our lives. Short-term and permanent body changes that record and remind us of our personal history. Some changes we seek, some we accept and some we dislike. External appearances are complemented by our memories and mindset.
  • going home still greased up and shag sweaty but not washing it off for a day or two
  • muscle sore for the rest of the week from a memorable workout
  • CP trophies you feel when you sit down - stripes weals or scars you wear with pride
  • steel bondage trophies - handcuff reddened wrists
  • skinhead crop - balls and pubes shaved smooth - shiny arsehole
  • rope harness burns
  • tits so sore any shirt seems too heavy the next day (or week!)
  • the ubiquitous stretched sphincter
  • and the permanent ones: tattoo, piercing, scarification or branding
• People:
  shagging the image not the man, the mainstream heterosexual connotation of trophy sex which may be why the professionals regard addictive sexual trophyism with deep suspicion.
  • celebrities, including having shagged a celeb before they became famous
  • models
  • military men - squaddies - sailors - airmen
  • barmen
  • bouncers
  • escorts
• Experiences: collecting trophies that say "I survived", "I was there" or "I did that once"
  • Borstal caning - Manx birching - Cornwall barracks flogging
  • prisoner of war imprisonment - interrogation
  • para wings
  • bungy-jumping T-shirt
• Locations
  • underground - airborne - underwater
  • continents - states - capital cities
  • backstage - railway carriage - in a crowd
• Photos, videos, trade cards and keepsakes

Sexual ecstasy being a transient pleasure, trophy fetishism appeals to our hoarding and collecting instincts. Safe sex guidance fuels the addiction - don't use toys on others.

But even good things don't last for ever. It's all too easy to end up an obsessive fetishist with an enormous collection of jocks, toys or even never-used contact numbers and e-mail addresses. And wearing a para's boots doesn't make you a para.

And are you shagging for him and the fun of the moment or to add his trophy to your collection?

Is he the trophy? Are you his trophy?

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I like to shave the chests and pubes of the men I screw--and then I save the hair in baggies. I have even convinced a few to let me shave their heads--LOL

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